Tweetie:
I stand corrected about the Seventh Day Adventists as I don't know what they do to former members. I did not really mean to lump them in with the others as far as shunning goes, just the history of their beginning. But, I have read stories of former Mormons and Scientologists that experienced the same type of treatment that witnesses experience when they leave.I've know both Mormans and Seventh Day Adventists....Over the years I have had several Morman friends... some are active and some are not. NONE have ever been shunned, it's just not their policy. In fact, I asked a couple of my friends and they said that if someone is disfellowshipped, members of the congregation are to make a special effort to make that person not feel shunned and to give them some extra emotional and social support. Sounds like what you read is just "stories", or "sour grape" stories from someone with an ax to grind.